What makes you different?

Experiments: My life has been a group of experiments that failed to take off until I resorted to writing.

I know being a writer is no different. But my journey is different. Its unique to me.

Anxious to get a job, I chose to do what was socially recommended for me. So, I tried. Being a govt. servant. Failed. A Research Scholar. Didn’t make it. A Professor. Guess what?

Is anal sex allowed in Islam? It's not written anywhere in the Quran whether it's forbidden or not.

Not ignoring emotions because they can be destructive. Not underestimating your aspirations because society calls them second-rate.

I experimented. A lot. And now I know I don't need more trials of this kind. I’m writing this today at just the right place from the comfort of my home while it rains outside. While a cold breeze rings music to my senses.

Honestly, there’s nothing that makes ‘me’ different.

She Spotted a Detail in a Photo and Knew Immediately—Her Marriage Was Over - Jason Deegan

Don’t drink because everybody does today.

P.S. What’s your idea of being different? Do you have a different point of view?

Everything has shaped me. Friends who gave me their pens and journals. Best friends I never made. Crush that made me write poems while he didn’t care. Romances I’ve missed. Opportunity to become an editor or a news correspondent I missed. I think all this has made me the writer I am.

How can fashion design be used to make a political statement in popular culture, and society?

So, keep on experimenting.

Even if that means disappointing your parents and teachers for some time, but believe you’ll eventually make them feel proud.

Don’t get a partner because you’re jealous of your friends.

The Roman Empire at the time of Christ kept meticulous records. Why then, is there no record of the trial of Jesus?

Take my word. You won’t regret it.

Being different is being okay with failure, so you know what the dessert of a win tastes like.

Without experiments, is life worth it.

Why is my coworker suddenly being so mean towards then being nice like nothing happened? She is nice with everyone but me.

Long story short, here I am. Being a writer. Doing things I’d always love to do. Sharing my experiences of what I learnt.

Being different is being a mess, yet being okay with it.

Don’t choose to be an engineer just because it pays well.

What are 10 interesting facts about you?

Otherwise, thank you for reading. It was fun writing to you all. Hope it helped you in more ways than one.

Until the day I choose to listen to myself. I let my subconscious go wherever it wanted me to go. It was not just in dreams I wanted to live, but in real life. Not allowing others to cloud my personality, my ability, my inclination towards philosophy, knack to motivate others, and my indifference towards others’ opinions.

To take out these experiments, accept the asymmetry of your emotions, your eccentricities, aspirations and thoughts for what they actually are. Instead of filtering it through the social system, recognize the difference and apply it in your life.

At what point did you realize it was the right time to leave your job?

Tried everything. A well-paying corporate job, govt. exams. Nothing provided me with security. I didn’t have time to myself. Hustling was my name. Didn’t go to parties, travel or anything. Didn’t talk to friends.

Consider a rat who never came out of the hole fearing for his life. He stayed in the dark for years and died one day, unbeknownst.

You know how all of this enlightenment came to me.

What is the best interracial stories that you hear or know and want to share?

What makes you YOU.

What if he’d come outside?

Not because people show it off and you have to follow the lead.

What are the best ways to treat seasonal allergies?

A govt. job could do it for me. Plus Money, plus security, plus prestige.

Agree?

I have always wanted to write things. Wrote poetry during my grad and reluctantly left it for preparation of a govt. exam because who’s got extra time for it.

Wow! The changeover from President Biden to VP Kamala Harris as candidate could not have been more successful in just 2 days! It was as if they had been planning it. Could they have planned it? Are you excited by the positive Democratic response?

"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." - Oscar Wilde

Do anything and everything because you like it. You love it. Do the things that make you go crazy. Things you’d barter your breath for. Things that make your life a rainbow.

Don’t go to the gym because it’s a fitness fad.

Is a narcissist capable of understanding the damage and the hurt that they have caused in your relationship?

I always yearned to go for government jobs because I had a few relatives already into it and doing well with money and security. And here is me, with an arts background, uncertain about what to choose.

You can be fearful and still use it to tame your weaknesses and build your emotional strength.

Neither I’m Tesla, who got poor grades in school, nor I’ve grown to invent electric current that powers many electronic devices today. Nor I’m an entrepreneur who is the idea behind the Tesla cars.

Why is dating so frustrating and difficult for a guy?

Become different not according to the world, but according to what you like and what you don’t.

I am an ordinary human being with the same body structure as you who are reading, you and I have the same material of what our bodies and brains are made up of.

Being different is being a weirdo. And being okay about it.

Republicans, why do you support Kamala Harris over Donald Trump?

All of it would have been different, and this life would mean something, at least for him.

Yes, I was not at all happy.

Can you make it?

Indeed, a number of other factors contribute to your uniqueness, but that’s for you to introspect.

“The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” - Lao Tzu

"Life is a journey, not a destination. Enjoy the ride." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

If you’ve read this far, let me tell you one more thing.

So, what actually makes us all different?

C’mon, it’s an opportunity to break the rules, stand out and become ONE of a kind.

Experiences: What has happened to me? Have I led a normal life with two parents and two siblings? Yes. Breakups I’ve had. Friends I’ve made. School I have attended. Guides I’ve met. Places I’ve been.

He would have experienced the miracle called light. Maybe he got better food to eat. Then he got wounded. Then in search of balm, he travaled to the wilderness and found a party of rats, eaten to its heart’s content and danced the night out.